Cont’d … Relationships and “The Secret”
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Here are three laws to work with to steer your relationships out of dysfunction and back to love.
The Law of Conservation
If you remember your chemistry from high school, you’re already familiar with this law, which states that energy can’t be created or destroyed but can change its form. In other words, it’s a constant and doesn’t come and go. Energy is–period.
When you take this out of the laboratory and into your life, you realize that all life is–period. Existence is made up of energy and matter, and while material forms may appear to come and go, the energy remains, transformed and enlivening some new form of matter. Further, human character traits, a type of current, are conserved through time. They may change appearances and show up in new people or situations, but they always exist. They don’t come and go, but they do transform.
Perceptions that something is missing–in yourself or someone else or that one person brings or takes away anything, are merely illusions. When you know that this law governs all energy, you’re set free from your limiting viewpoint to see myriad forms of all things.
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Nothing’s missing, and nothing’s gained or lost.
Everything remains. Energy is; love is.
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The Law of Polarity
If we move on to physics class, we can look at something called wave-particle duality, which is basically just a scientific name for the law of polarity.
You see, light behaves in an interesting way, depending on the kind of experiment you do. Sometimes it displays particle-like behavior, and sometimes it acts like a wave. So is it one or the other? It’s both. Physicists refer to “the wave nature of particles” and “the particle nature of waves” when they attempt to describe the nested duality of the nature of light.
The law of polarity states that everything (not just light) can be separated into two wholly opposite parts, and that each of those still contains the potentiality of the other. Particles have the potentiality of waves, up exists with down, white has black, slow is also fast . . . and the same holds true for elation and depression, infatuation and resentment, kindness and cruelty, generosity and stinginess, and so on.
No event is solely beautiful or tragic, just as no person is just good or bad. Labeling things this way may help you talk about them, but it doesn’t bring you to the heart of love. Instead, realize that every time you allow yourself into an extreme, you create the equal experience of the opposite. When you acknowledge that one-sidedness is merely a function of perception, not truth, it opens the doorway to seeing the rest of what is. And when you allow yourself to perceive the whole of anything, you’re open to the divine perfection of the universe.
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Nothing is one-sided; everything contains its
opposite. All is love.
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The Law of Equilibrium
Sir Isaac Newton revealed that any action has an equal and opposite reaction; forces come in pairs, he said. You can observe a similar phenomenon in chemical reactions. And in life, you’ve probably noticed that what goes around comes around. Things have an inherent balance.
Although something may appear one-sided in the moment, in time you’ll see that there is, indeed, an equal and opposite reaction in that same moment. If someone is criticizing you and attempting to tear you down, for example, you can count on the fact that you’ll soon be able to recognize that somewhere, simultaneously, someone else is complimenting you and attempting to build you up.
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If you look in the moment, and even over vast
spans of time, you see great order. The universe
maintains equilibrium and synchronicity.
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Hello,
Indeed, in the quantum world there is the particle/wave duality, however, superposition is rather neither than both. That is, a photon is a particle when thus measured, and a wave, when measured differently. But light, from its own point of view is nothing, from its own point of view it is all over and eternal, for it (light) the universe is zero dimensional (to have a wider point of view, special relativity has to be taken into account). From our viewpoint, however, light has certain qualities, dependent on how we measure it; by making a measurement, we collapse light to be a particle or a wave. And so, nature has no real nature, no defined nature until we interact with it and thereby measure it, which means, depending on how we define it, nature reveals different, and often contradictory aspects.
These different aspects of nature that we can perceive are not necessarily opposites. It is true that “light” gains meaning from “darkness”, and “inside” gains meaning from “outside”, but also a “mother” gains meaning from a “child”. However, this is not due to the existence of opposites, for not everything has an opposite, and not everything is of a dual nature. The reason why anything gains meaning at all is because defining anything means to create a border wherein the defined can gain meaning, which implicitly implies that there must be something beyond the border of the definition. This beyond is everything else, which our defined object is not. This beyond gives meaning to the defined because it makes the defined unique, something else than everything else. You can read more about this and how it affects our lives, and why everything is indeed love in “How is there Something from Nothing – A Brief History of Creation” http://holophany.com/logic/how-is-there-something-from-nothing-a-brief-history-of-creation-2.html by Clara Szalai.
Regarding balance and Newton’s laws: indeed, every force creates a counter force. However, when you are being attacked with criticism, this does not guarantee that you will meet the same amount of compliments; the counter force in such a case is your defensive reaction: whether you attack your critic or yourself by showering abuse upon yourself for having been so criticized, or some other outlet. There is no such law that the more abused you are, the more pampered you will be. If you are criticized or abused, don’t wait for the universe to intervene: it won’t. Better take responsibility for yourself, and your condition. If you stay put waiting for God or the universe to change your circumstances, then you are behaving like a matter particle that is being acted upon. Instead, be the actor, use your freedom of choice, which is not a law of physics. If you only rely upon the laws of physics, then you solely rely upon deterministic laws that deny the possibility of freedom of choice. Why science is unable to cope with the notion of free will, consciousness or God and how we can become more responsible and empathic by understanding the structure of both physical laws as well as human nature, go to http://www.holophany.com It complements your assertions.
Many people face difficulties and challenges in life about their relationships. At the end of the day we as human beings, faults and failures have to look inside ourselves and find the missing pieces that makes us tick.
Most people are just settling for second best. Others are trying to find the right one. Many can’t seem to get their interfering mother out of the way. How does it all work then?
All things have design and that includes people. We are walking zombies in the world that calls out for peace, joy and love. We want it yet we don’t know how to give it. We know it yet we won’t share it with others. We see others suffer around the world yet we don’t stand up to fight against it.
First find out who you are? Why you’re here? What’s life all about and then ask another if they are willing to join you in finding all the other answers together.
well if i am attracting these relationships in my life, and are doing mediating, montras, believing saying things in the now, and also praying……………………then i just don’t get it.
How much more? It not the hard times, it the giving up of believing in the now and waiting……….
So what is it i am missing.
Wanda, you’re missing awareness of your unconscious thoughts. You must address how you view people who have successful relationships. Do you see them as weak? Do you think that some other sort of negative characteristic is a prerequisite for a good relationship? Are you getting to be right about something, like you think you deserve what you have? If any negative vibration is there, then the LOA will keep on delivering it. You must address unconscious limiting beliefs. They are there.
This is a quote from a Secret master Dr.Vitale:
“Everything that comes into your life you have attracted on an unconscious level. The LOA is a law like the Law of Gravity. It is always there and always working, whether you like it or not. EVERYTHING you get in your life is due to this law. The catch is that you may not be aware of the unconscious thoughts which is attracting the bad stuff to you. So to overcome this, you need to go through an awakening process and get clear of old beliefs. If you are attracting things which you don’t want, it is because of unconscious beliefs (paradigms). The way around this is to become aware of them, clear them (and/or change them) and then you can greatly accelerate the LOA process so you will get much faster results.”
I will say that www.m3ed.com in Dallas is the only place I’ve ever heard of that does this. You experience an awakening process there in which you become aware of unconscious beliefs, and then either clear them or change them. It is profound. Everyone who has taken those trainings say that they have no other life experience to compare it to, or if they have had children, they compare the experience to the birth of a child. When I went I had epiphanies(plural). Transformation would be another good word for it.
Again, the LOA is a constant. It’s like you’ve discovered that man can fly and that anyone can do it. Yes, anyone can. Look there, see, the LOA teachers are doing it and they say anyone can do it. But don’t forget to read the parts where they say you need to first learn new principles, and you need to address unconscious fears of _____(insert whatever fears keep you from taking flight in your own goals), and you need to address all other unconscious/limiting beliefs. Trust me, unconscious beliefs are there. If you could identify them then they would not be called unconscious beliefs and they would not be such a huge factor in your recurring undesired results.
If people are relying on the LOA without having first addressed their unconscious beliefs(paradigms), then utilizing the LOA may become frustrating and disheartening. It certainly was frustrating for me before I did this work on my self.
It’s like someone told you that everyone has their own private Lear Jet(the LOA), and here’s yours, and you can use it to get what you want including the best relationship, now have at it! So you’re sitting in the jet and the lights on the dash are blinking, and you want to roll out of the gate but it’s not going. And the excitement is turning to wondering. Yep, the fine print in the manual says you need to learn how to fly first, and equally as important, you need to know your self first, and your unconscious/limiting beliefs that trip you up or cause you to freeze up during critical moments, or make you miss what the airport tower is telling you to do, etc.
For some there is a propensity here to want something for nothing. If you’re not flying at the speed of sound and if you’re sitting in the cockpit and reading books and that does not seem to be bringing the results you want, are you willing to do more and go deep? Like “go through an awakening process and get clear of old beliefs.”?
u r wonderful !
u r wonderful !